over the last couple of months, i have been busy and free... work has been inconsistent. that is not a bad thing... but it's given me a lot of insight about how we spend our time.
ask any man on the street what is most important to them... their reply will be family, friends, work and the list goes on... but how often do our replies reflect the way we manage our lives?
if we claim that family is the most important aspect of holistic living, then are we spending enough time at home? are we doing enough at home?
just this week, i got myself into a mess... well, i decided that the mess needs to be cleared up because it involves someone important. how important? important enough for me to set aside an hour to doing something for the person in question.
what about you? i challenge you to take 5% of your daily time to love someone important, be it family, friend or partner... makes a world of difference!
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Saturday, August 8, 2009
JJ林俊傑/蔡卓妍 ~ 【小酒窩】MV
JJ林俊杰/蔡卓妍 (阿SA) ~ 小酒窝
词:王雅君
曲:林俊杰
(JJ)我还在寻找 一个依靠和一个拥抱
谁替我祈祷 替我烦恼 为我生气为我闹
(sa)幸福开始有预兆 缘分让我们慢慢紧靠
然后孤单被吞没了 无聊变得有话聊 有变化了
(合)小酒窝长睫毛 是你最美的记号
我每天睡不着 想念你的微笑
你不知道 你对我多么重要
有了你生命完整的刚好
小酒窝长睫毛 迷人得无可救药
我放慢了步调 感觉像是喝醉了
终于找到 心有灵犀的美好
一辈子暖暖的好 我永远爱你到老
(sa)幸福开始有预兆 缘分让我们慢慢紧靠
然后孤单被吞没了 无聊变得有话聊 有变化了
(合)小酒窝长睫毛 是你最美的记号
我每天睡不着 想念你的微笑
你不知道 你对我多么重要
有了你生整完成的刚好
小酒窝长睫毛 迷人得无可救药
我放慢了步调 感觉像是喝醉了
终于找到 心有灵犀的美好
一辈子暖暖的好 我永远爱你到老
小酒窝长睫毛 迷人得无可救药
我放慢了步调 感觉像是喝醉了
终于找到 心有灵犀的美好
一辈子暖暖的好 我永远爱你到
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
decisions...
i have decided...
1) to place my dad before anyone or anything else...
2) to devote myself to doing well in my career...
3) to be the friend that all my friends deserve...
4) to let the past live in the past and not attempt to recapture that which is history...
1) to place my dad before anyone or anything else...
2) to devote myself to doing well in my career...
3) to be the friend that all my friends deserve...
4) to let the past live in the past and not attempt to recapture that which is history...
Friday, May 29, 2009
new pants or new shoes?
Q: should i wear new pants or new shoes tomorrow?
A: new pants! you don't need new shoes cos i'll carry you to wherever you want to go...
aawww... major mush...
A: new pants! you don't need new shoes cos i'll carry you to wherever you want to go...
aawww... major mush...
Thursday, May 7, 2009
i should be a prophet!
so i received a letter from the authorities about a parking offence... in my mind, i was all ready to appeal and stand my ground about how unprofessional and a whole lot of other things it is...
then i scrutinized the freaking letter to find that they used the entire backpage to inform me of the nine ways i could make payment... granted that there was a number for enquiries (but like every good gahmen agency, you will be placed on hold and made to listen to annoying music)... not a single email or word about how one could argue their stance...
very very disappointing... how typical of the local authorities... you are wrong until you can show that you are innocent... i used to be proud to tell people that i am singaporean... slowly, i'm not so sure anymore...
anyway back to the prophet bit, i was like... maybe i should go to the website and look up a relevant email that i can write to... well, that email does not exist... exactly what i predicted!
this little episode is going to turn out very interesting...
then i scrutinized the freaking letter to find that they used the entire backpage to inform me of the nine ways i could make payment... granted that there was a number for enquiries (but like every good gahmen agency, you will be placed on hold and made to listen to annoying music)... not a single email or word about how one could argue their stance...
very very disappointing... how typical of the local authorities... you are wrong until you can show that you are innocent... i used to be proud to tell people that i am singaporean... slowly, i'm not so sure anymore...
anyway back to the prophet bit, i was like... maybe i should go to the website and look up a relevant email that i can write to... well, that email does not exist... exactly what i predicted!
this little episode is going to turn out very interesting...
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
work rant... (part two)
an example of the kind of shit that i have to live with...
Hi Edwin
Many thanks, once again, for all your excellent work with the team. I know you are keen to work with the students this Friday and I very much appreciate your commitment to DOS. I have now made alternative arrangements for Friday and will be happy to stay in College while you work with the debaters. I would suggest, however, that 4 hours training immediately before a hard Saturday of debating is too long and would ask you to finish by 5.00 pm.
guess what? the top teams (namely acjc, rjc, vjc, hci) all train like there is no day or night... 4pm to 11pm daily for a month during competition season is not uncommon... you did freaking drama, how would you know what is too long? have you ever been a competitive debator?
I think it's important that we try to stick to our published schedules, both from the teachers' perspectives as well as the students'.
yes! your schedule is important... the students as well... hmm, i think we are missing out the coach here...
I am keenly aware of the criticism from last year,
criticism? show me! no one complained when we beat vjc... no one complained when we made it to top eight! no one complained when one of the speakers made it to top twenty speakers and got shortlisted for national team selection! no one complained when i transformed four non-debators into competition speakers! screw you and your criticism!
and do not wish parents of students to be caught unawares by last-minute practices.
the students have been warned of the commitment levels when they were selected and they have been told to clear it with their parents. in addition, i have never held students back against their wishes. if they want to leave early, they can.
Obviously the last-minute effect also applies to teachers in charge who often have other plans during the evenings.
hey, look here! i have two debate competition teams and one school for drama. i offer you extra trainings because the demands are much higher. do you not think i have plans too? do you not think i have to cancel MY plans just so that i can make time for the teams?
I have asked S***a to keep us informed about planned activities, and P***r, A****n and myself will be happy to work within these plans so long as we are given sufficient notice.
you freaking find out that you are through to quarter finals on tuesday morning, i tell you we need the extra training on wednesday. is there sufficient notice for me too? there are three of you! there is one of me... guess who is at the losing end?
Cheers
F U!
N**k
go to hell... and bring your other two imbecile friends with you...
Hi Edwin
Many thanks, once again, for all your excellent work with the team. I know you are keen to work with the students this Friday and I very much appreciate your commitment to DOS. I have now made alternative arrangements for Friday and will be happy to stay in College while you work with the debaters. I would suggest, however, that 4 hours training immediately before a hard Saturday of debating is too long and would ask you to finish by 5.00 pm.
guess what? the top teams (namely acjc, rjc, vjc, hci) all train like there is no day or night... 4pm to 11pm daily for a month during competition season is not uncommon... you did freaking drama, how would you know what is too long? have you ever been a competitive debator?
I think it's important that we try to stick to our published schedules, both from the teachers' perspectives as well as the students'.
yes! your schedule is important... the students as well... hmm, i think we are missing out the coach here...
I am keenly aware of the criticism from last year,
criticism? show me! no one complained when we beat vjc... no one complained when we made it to top eight! no one complained when one of the speakers made it to top twenty speakers and got shortlisted for national team selection! no one complained when i transformed four non-debators into competition speakers! screw you and your criticism!
and do not wish parents of students to be caught unawares by last-minute practices.
the students have been warned of the commitment levels when they were selected and they have been told to clear it with their parents. in addition, i have never held students back against their wishes. if they want to leave early, they can.
Obviously the last-minute effect also applies to teachers in charge who often have other plans during the evenings.
hey, look here! i have two debate competition teams and one school for drama. i offer you extra trainings because the demands are much higher. do you not think i have plans too? do you not think i have to cancel MY plans just so that i can make time for the teams?
I have asked S***a to keep us informed about planned activities, and P***r, A****n and myself will be happy to work within these plans so long as we are given sufficient notice.
you freaking find out that you are through to quarter finals on tuesday morning, i tell you we need the extra training on wednesday. is there sufficient notice for me too? there are three of you! there is one of me... guess who is at the losing end?
Cheers
F U!
N**k
go to hell... and bring your other two imbecile friends with you...
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